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What Do You Need to Know about Having the Driving Conversation with Your Elderly Loved One?

Home Health Care in Stockton CA: Driving And Your Senior

Home Health Care in Stockton CA: Driving And Your Senior

The driving conversation is one that many family caregivers dread because it can go very wrong right from the beginning.  Try some of these suggestions to keep the conversation on track.


Approach the Topic Respectfully

You may think that this is the next logical conversation to have with your loved-one.  Your senior, on the other hand, is facing a situation in which her entire life is about to change.  Where she’s had self-sufficiency, now she no longer does.  This is a tremendous topic for her, so approach it with the gravity that it deserves.

Don’t Be Vague with Your Aging Adult

Come to the conversation prepared with specific examples.  If you’re vague in any way, this is going to feel more like an attack than it will feel as if you’re genuinely concerned for her safety.   This isn’t about beating your aging family member up emotionally, either.   Stick with the facts that point to safety concerns.

Offer a Solution Rather than Taking Something Away

You should also come to the conversation with something in exchange for what you’re trying to remove from your senior’s life.  If she’s not going to be able to drive for herself any longer, she needs another way to be able to go wherever she needs to go.  You can offer to drive her yourself, arrange for family members to volunteer, or even hire elderly care providers.  Giving her more than one option is optimal.

Don’t Go it Alone

If you are concerned that this conversation won’t go well, bring in one or two family members who have also noticed that your senior family member is having difficulty driving.   Again, this isn’t to gang up on or outnumber your aging adult, but it’s possible she wants to hear that more than one person is concerned.

Keep in Mind This Is Difficult for Your Loved-One

Always remember that this is a difficult time for your senior.  She’s transitioning to a new stage in life and it’s one in which she’s not going to be able to have as much freedom and independence as she once had.
If the conversation starts to feel really antagonistic, table it and come back to it when you can both be more positive.

If you or an aging loved-one are considering home health care in Stockton, CA, please contact the caring staff at ApexCare®. Proudly Serving Sacramento, Yolo, Placer & El Dorado Counties. Call Today 916-924-9111.

Jason Wu, President

President at ApexCare
I first became aware of the devastating effects of Alzheimer’s disease ten years ago when my grandmother was diagnosed with this disease.I saw firsthand how critical it was to have a loving family or caregiver to ensure my grandmother’s safety and daily well-being.My grandmother was fortunate enough to have close family members who cared for her as her Alzheimer’s disease progressed.

Since then, I have had a strong interest in helping and supporting our senior community as they age and are unable to care for themselves.Coming from a family of physicians, I am excited to be involved in the medical community by providing the highest levels of non-clinical in-home care to our clients and their families.With my work experience, I firmly believe that ApexCare can touch many lives and have a great impact on our local senior community.

Prior to joining ApexCare, I worked in a wide variety of industries and have owned multiple businesses ranging from construction to mortgage banking.Outside of work, I am an active youth soccer and basketball coach, having coached recreational soccer for over 8 years and elementary school basketball for over 4 years.I graduated with a BS in Economics from the Wharton School at the University of Pennsylvania and received a Masters of Management degree from the Kellogg Graduate School of Management at Northwestern University.My career has been focused on building great organizations that deliver the highest absolute levels of service to our clients.I look forward to continuing this passion with ApexCare.

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